Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Introduction

Hi all, I spend most of my day in front of a computer for work. It is also the place where I make connections, find out about all sorts of topics, do much of my shopping, etc. I have had in the back of my head an idea for a blog and thought what have I done and what do I do that I can help others with? I became a working mom 2 1/2 years ago and at that time also did a whole bunch of things concurrently - I moved from Kansas to Kentucky with 2 of my children while living in a graduate student apartment. I wrote my Ph.D. dissertation. I homeschooled my kids. I went house hunting without my husband (although he did a lot of research online) and found our house without him. I coordinated a move of the rest of our household including my middle child, my mom, our pets, our household belongings, and my husband. I defended my dissertation. I did a lot of things that most people do if they are not working - most graduate students are paid by their advisor while they are writing their dissertation, at least in chemistry, which my degree is in. All they do is write. Not homeschool. And have a full-time job which is not in dissertation writing. I personally try to read everything I can on that work-life balance; how do working mothers do it all (or not), and so on. I thought I would offer my insights and start a discussion on how do you work and have a life? We have recently started working towards more sustainable food - starting a garden, started raising chickens and ducks. Let me tell you - these things are also tasks that take more than part-time effort! SO I would love to hear from others your thoughts on working and living. What do you do? What do you not do? Peace, CEM

1 comment:

  1. No such thing as balance - a balance conjures the image of two things being made of equal weight and this metaphor isn't even useful (for a woman, maybe if I were a man and thought of only one or two things at a time...) A. I have more than two things in my life and B. My family and my career are never of equal time or importance. Sometimes a deadline means there will be no dinner and other times a high fever in an infant brings an entire research program to a stand still. Too bad. Many things take more than part time effort. I am sometimes surprised at the time and efforts required in maintaining a meaningful marriage, too. (Worth it, I love it, but it takes time and energy!) I have had fulfillment when I decide all the things i will NOT do: watch TV or movies is the biggest thing for me. I just have a lot of other things I want to spend three hours on!

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